Modern-day Feminism
I’ll try not to be harsh, but there are some things that you have to worry about–the alarms should be sounding right now for women all over the United States. Last year, the current administration passed the Partial-Birth Abortion Ban, right? This big, controversial law has some really scary elements to it–the US Government has written a law that denies you a medical procedure based upon a premise of morality. Regardless of whether you agree with the morality not, they have passed legislation against your BODY.
Modern feminists worry about the same things that old-school feminists worried about. Margaret Atwood wrote The Edible Woman more than 20 years ago, and we clearly have the same issues today.
The scary aspects of this surface in the details of the transaction of passing this law: the picture of the signing of this legislation has our President sitting at a table and about 8 or 9 guys standing behind him joking and giggling with one another as if they were waiting for a batch of chicken wings at HOOTERs, or something. Not ONE woman was on that stage to support that piece of legislation. And, it doesn’t matter–with or without women’s support, they signed it into law. It may be tied up in the courts, the language might be problematic problematic, and yeah, they will have a hard time enforcing it, but this legislation calls back to several other pieces of legislation that were problematic.
Ever heard or used the saying, “Rule of Thumb?” This actually was a british law that specified that it was LEGAL to beat your wife–as long as the stick was smaller than the diameter of your thumb. This was a LAW!!!
There was also the “Contagious Diseases Act” passed in England in the 1830s. This law allowed the government of a small harbor town to forceably detain and subject an unescorted woman to a gynecological exam–to ensure that she wasn’t passing contagious diseases to the sailors. The implications of this one are really incredible–as in unbelievable. The “unescorted” part implies that rich people didn’t have to worry about it–they would never leave their house without a driver or a servant, or someone. But the law made it so that male police officers could take a woman, make her go to a male doctor, who would then give her an exam against her will–more legislation against the body. (Side note: the tools of the time looked like something you would use in your fireplace)
Economically, England has been another forerunner of American gender politics. They passed the Right of Property Act in the 1860s. This law made it acceptable for a woman to own 10% of her original dowry if she was successfully granted a Divorce by British Courts. So, let me get this straight: she can legally own 10% of the money her dad gave to her husband for marrying her IF and ONLY if the courts granted her a divorce (a highly unlikely proposition in the 1860s). So, although it marked an improvement in the rights of the women, it really was still a dismall situation. Women were not allowed to own anything in British society. They could be in the care of their father, their husband, or an uncle, perhaps–but not in charge of themselves. (Factoid: This law inspired Ibsen to compose the play “Hedda Gable.”)
That myth that things are equal now is just that–a myth. Things are better than they were in the 1800’s the 1980’s, and the 1990’s, but the struggle has changed–not dissipated.
Feminism was given a bad name in America when bras were being burned in the late 70’s (Susan B. Anthony was a feminist, but she was never labelled as such–she was a “suffragist”). The highest profile people–the ones that made the news–were the extremists! The majority of feminist, however, are looking for equality in the workplace, in language, and in voice.
Although there are plenty of differences within feminism, what I studied, and my understanding of it goes like this: There are dominant groups, subordinate groups, and a place of intersection between the two–a shared space. The dominant group speaks louder than the rest–or has the final ruling when all is said and done (see the above example with the Partial-birth Abortion Ban, Contagious Diseases Act, Right of Property act, etc.). Feminism strives to give an equal voice to those subordinate groups. This is a continual process–not an epic battle, with peace in the land for all afterwards. Because there will always be dominant and subordinate groups, Feminists will always struggle to provide a voice wherever that voice is suppressed.
You don’t have to burn your bra to be a Feminist–you can look for embedded inequalities in our language and in our spheres of influence. When someone says”she’s just a girl,” they are reinforcing a stereotype that women are the weaker gender, or that women are overly emotional and not logical, or that women are not suited to work in business, etc. Don’t you want to say something? When someone judges you more by your physical appearance (Margaret Atwoods Edible Woman) than by your ideas or your words, don’t you want to say something?
I guess I could go on forever and, I just might have to . . . .
19 Dec 2004 EWriter
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I keep up with issues such as this. Partly because I am female and partly because it is just another symptom of America gone mad.
There is much talk here of religion running the government. It is said that the American president is a devout Christian and uses his personal philosophy to decide policy. He is just the monkey on top of the religious front that seems to dominate these days. I think the PC term is a return to family values. No gay marriage, no abortions, and no stem cell research. The minute sperm and egg unite, a womans body is not her own, because her body holds another life. I take real issue with that.
I am anti abortion for myself. I am pro choice for the rest of the world. Its not my choice to tell another person to have a child or not. I have always held the belief that a fetus dependant on the woman carrying it is not a life in and of itself yet. Life begins to me when that fetus lives and breaths on its own with no assistance from the uterus. When life begins is not a fact but an opinion which ofcourse is why the door is left wide open here for the making and repealing of these laws that seem nothing short of intrusive and poorly thought about when considering religion in relation to the issue. Dress it up and send it to church any way that it makes one feel better but these are morality questions, not biology lessons. If there were a definitive answer…. and not just opinions, the argument would take a whole new direction.
It is not just abortion, its womens rights in general. It all looks incredibly wonderful on paper but what the words on the paper translate to in the minds of individuals is a different concept. I work in a mans corporate world. It can be done but the road to get me where I am was not easy and I had a few breaks along the way by people .. mainly men …. who saw what I was trying to do and supported me because I was willing to take the beating to get to where I needed to go. Those beating consisted of something as simple as being called baby by colleagues to being flat out asked who I slept with to get my job. The rumors that circulated about me were viscious and started by men that could not handle answering to a woman. They didnt see me as the most qualified and didnt recall that I lowered the default rate on corporate loans to 14 percent from an unacceptable 21. I did this alone. I learned so early in my life that womens rights were not something automatically recognized by the general population but were earned by being an unrelenting bitch and taking slap after slap after slap that would put me in my place. I just wasnt one that would sit still and take it. Now, I am as unpopular as ever but I am afforded the respect due someone in my position. The very people denying me the chance to show my ability are the very people asking for my help.
It is not any surprise that I am the only female in my department. Not many people.. men nor women .. would want to deal with what I had to deal with to get to where I am. I was equal to any man on paper, but not seen as equal until I survived the nasty cruel manner of treatment and held my head up. I do not blame women for just walking away and going elsewhere. If it was in me to have done, I would have done the same thing. I am just made of something different. I had to stay. The victory if it can be called that, was hollow. I have found that the secret to liking a job like mine is to be consumed with a need for more money and power. I do not want the power. I wanted to change perceptions. I have failed to do that however I have succeeded in proving myself to myself.
It is up to women to scream louder, demand better and tolerate nothing less than equality. It is a fight to the death and can you blame a woman for preferring a quiet life. Good girls do not scream or make a fuss. What man will want to marry a woman that thinks of herself as an equal and can prove it in her paycheck. We are taught that the very qualities necessary to fight the war on women as my sister calls it, are the very qualities that we are told will leave you a spinster. I have never feared being alone so that fear has never been mine.
I was raised by a man that told me I could be anything I wanted and that I WAS equal to any man. But as he would say these things to me, I would not have to look far to find his wife in an apron cooking, cleaning, ironing, or running after 4 children. I find this the way of society….. speak the politically correct terms such as equal but damning anyone that fights for and demands that equality. One must laugh at the hypocrisy or cry at the injustice. Id rather laugh and turn the joke around on the jester. Tears are what women are expected to produce, laughter and resilence are not.
Thank you for this. It is nice to know that someone unable to give birth, can see things from the point of view of someone that can.
Alison